This is a guest post by Erica Mueller from Ericasays.com. She describes herself as a self-taught graphic designer for both web and print, a Wordpress lover and manipulator, freelance writer, blogger, and a social media enthusiast.
Social Networking in 2010
If you’ve signed up for and use Twitter you’ve probably noticed there’s not a lot of conversation happening in this space. The same goes for Facebook, LinkedIn, and other networks. These places have turned into free billboards full of spam, marketing, and very few gold nuggets.
No, these great tools haven’t always been this way. When I first joined Twitter I enjoyed many a conversation; I learned and I taught. And, I connected. Facebook is a little different… We tend to connect with our personal friends via our own accounts, but when we add on a fan page for our website, we’re normally the only one posting anything to the stream.
The 80-20 rule is great, but I think maybe it should be more like:
- 40% Conversation
- 40% Promoting Others
- 20% Self Promotion
If we want to stand out from the crowd, we’re going to have to connect and we’re going to have to do less linking. Not every micro-post needs to contain a link, or self-promoting content. Post things that make people think. Post a question via your Facebook Fan Page. When people reply, follow up. Sometimes people just want to talk. Some may not have time to go read a blog post, but they’ll take five seconds to read the 140 characters you’ve used to answer their question. And, maybe the next time you post a link to an informational post, they’ll remember you as the one who helped them out.
It ain’t called Social Networking for nothin’!
What are your ideas for turning your online space into a social gathering?






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